Comments on: True vulnerablity http://coolmom.com/2010/06/07/true-vulnerablity/ parents don't know what they are doing anyway, might as well laugh about it Tue, 22 May 2012 01:28:18 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: Stanz http://coolmom.com/2010/06/07/true-vulnerablity/#comment-21186 Stanz Thu, 10 Jun 2010 01:47:54 +0000 http://coolmom.com/?p=5522#comment-21186 Hey after 10+ years of marriage we each still have our own accounts. Almost everything else is merged, and not a lot goes into my other account, but I feel your pain and it would be weird to give it up! Hey after 10+ years of marriage we each still have our own accounts. Almost everything else is merged, and not a lot goes into my other account, but I feel your pain and it would be weird to give it up!

]]> By: Maegan http://coolmom.com/2010/06/07/true-vulnerablity/#comment-21183 Maegan Thu, 10 Jun 2010 00:01:56 +0000 http://coolmom.com/?p=5522#comment-21183 I don't make money, lol...so we have a "joint" account. He deposits, I spend. :) I don’t make money, lol…so we have a “joint” account. He deposits, I spend. :)

]]> By: wendy http://coolmom.com/2010/06/07/true-vulnerablity/#comment-21151 wendy Tue, 08 Jun 2010 22:32:37 +0000 http://coolmom.com/?p=5522#comment-21151 actually, i don't think it's silly at all to keep separate accts, even when in a comm. property state. we use the 3-account system. the bulk of our money goes in a joint account that pays for everything related to house and kids, and after determining how much the "house" requires, we each get an allowance in our personal accts to spend as we please. this allows each of us to spend freely from our own discretionary funds. we like it this way! actually, i don’t think it’s silly at all to keep separate accts, even when in a comm. property state.

we use the 3-account system. the bulk of our money goes in a joint account that pays for everything related to house and kids, and after determining how much the “house” requires, we each get an allowance in our personal accts to spend as we please. this allows each of us to spend freely from our own discretionary funds. we like it this way!

]]> By: NotaCoolMom.com http://coolmom.com/2010/06/07/true-vulnerablity/#comment-21130 NotaCoolMom.com Tue, 08 Jun 2010 02:02:00 +0000 http://coolmom.com/?p=5522#comment-21130 Not easy to do! We did it, but I kept my own as well. Why? Not sure. I'm a lawyer - I can say with certainty there's no legal distinction - he still has rights to my separate account. It just makes me feel good knowing it's there. Ahhhh......modern love! Not easy to do! We did it, but I kept my own as well. Why? Not sure. I’m a lawyer – I can say with certainty there’s no legal distinction – he still has rights to my separate account. It just makes me feel good knowing it’s there. Ahhhh……modern love!

]]> By: Jessica http://coolmom.com/2010/06/07/true-vulnerablity/#comment-21126 Jessica Mon, 07 Jun 2010 23:18:19 +0000 http://coolmom.com/?p=5522#comment-21126 Oh the suspense! Congratulations on further merging your souls. Oh the suspense! Congratulations on further merging your souls.

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