A huge part of my life were the 6 and half years I spent as the producer of the Dr. Dean Edell radio show(’93 to ’99). Dean brought me on as side kick, I had “Daphne’s corner” and even a theme song thanks to Amy Turner! He and Jeff Fischgrund gave me my first ever TV job as his on screen “screener” for his TV show “Hey, Dr. Dean”. So I would love the guy for the breaks he gave me, but I really love him because in the words of my mom “he re-raised you.” He has been an incredible mentor, friend, second dad. Whether listening to my drama unfold on some dating situation to career advice he was there for me. I relied on him so much that when I gave notice, because I wanted to spread my wings creatively, do more TV, probably return home to LA ( we were in San Francisco) I gave him a years notice.
Now the syndicated radio show, the syndicated TV, the local TV are all behind him as he enjoys retirement with his wonderful wife Sharon. My kids ( and Mark and I) love visiting them at their sprawling country spread in Mendocino. We are as close as family, but as relaxed as friends. On our most recent trip I said, “Hey, let’s do a video.” You can hear the sounds of the country. Dean said, “we could prop the camera up over there.” But, someone volunteered to be the camera person.
I’m filled with joy that our friendship continues.
Summer is here and I have my children in a different camp every week! Well, not really. I was recently accused of “allowing my children to play unsupervised in the backyard.” Call me guilty! They have a childhood.
I haven’t signed them up for stuff all summer. Why?
1) I want to spend time with them
2) I don’t have full time job so I don’t need to
3) they need to play
4) I don’t want to have to be somewhere every morning when I do that 9 months out fo the year
I love summer! I love not racing to school. I love not saying “have you done your homework”, not packing lunch every day and dodging the dog pooh that lines the walkway near my daughter’s school.
I love getting to see my kids more. Vivien consented to sit for a brief interview. It’s been a while. In journalism we’d call this a “get”. The one hitch is that Rex insisted on helping with production. Oh, help he did
Not in a number sense. But it was important to make it more joyful than last year when some bad business news arrived on my birthday 2012. A dark cloud hung over it and stayed, and stayed. I can’t say it better than Eddie Murphy did in this old sketch. That about sums up my feeling
The clouds have not entirely parted, but as Mark and I have now learned what to do. Live with the clouds, don’t let them cover you. When the going gets tough, the tough throw a party. So, Mark threw together a lovely cocktail party at our home. He made the food. He told me proudly he had used my meatball and savory tart recipe. I’m flattered.
woken up on my birthday. Perfect!
We had a bartender.
I bought a new dress.
I drank a couple of Manhattan’s. My favorite drink.
I’m very lucky to have friends and family show up for me. Their presence was the present for sure.
This was very fun to do. Cafe Mom Studios included me in a great line up of female comics who also happen to be moms. I hadn’t done stand up in a long time. It went very well. You will see my closing bit was pulled from something I developed here.
These Kia videos my kids and I did in September have become like a scrapbook book for me. It was the last days of summer, and as it turned out, the last days of Campanile. Though we didn’t know it yet. In this charming episode of Vivien, Rex, Daphne and their 2013 Kia Sorento we use it to help sell some cool drinks on a hot day. I know they are my kids, but jeez they are pretty cute here. They did love serving the lemonade.
Yes, today we would do better as a hot chocolate stand. It’s shot very prettily and it’s in the parking lot of what was Campanile with Alex, who was the best valet guy making a cameo. The La Brea Bakery sign is in the back, though they too have been forced to move up the street by the change of lease holders ( dead to me).
It’s a sweet nugget of time. Check out the nice car with the power folding side mirrors! Maybe I folded them to fast. I didn’t see the predatory restauranteur breathing down our necks.
I’ve been quiet the last few days since 1) did stand up for the first time in a while– really fun. Met some HILARIOUS women. 2) the stress of the restaurant closing and dealing with an addiction issue in my families has caused me to have the MOST debilitating back problems I’ve ever had AND I got shingles. I’m about to dash to the 2nd doctors appointment of the day, but I know I needed a chuckle, maybe you do to. Here is the lates episode that I did with cafe mom studios. Please share! I have two words for it: Fun- ny.
I’m EXHAUSTED from the month long wake and I’ll tell you about the last night of Campanile, but now I need a laugh. Ironically, the latest episode from my collaboration with Cafe Mom Studios is about working from home. For the time being at least this is something my husband will also be participating in!
Please watch, enjoy, and share. I think this one is pretty darn good.
IT’S FINALLY HERE! I’ve gestated and now I’ve given birth to the funniest webisode I’ve ever done and the funniest video I’ve done since “Moms with Scarves.” This is the first of 8 episodes with Cafe Mom Studios for the NEW series “How To Be a Mom”. I’m really proud of it and it was so great to work with a creative team after shooting, editing, feeding all by myself all year.
PLEASE watch, Please SUBSCRIBE to cafemomstudios on youtube to see them all ( and so I can do more).
My friend Sarah Maizes ( “professional writer, amateur mom” lol) guest stars as all the annoying parents that cross my path. Per usual, I couldn’t have done this without my kids, Vivien and Rex!