It’s that time again.. the best holiday where you don’t have to buy a present. Except for a hostess present maybe. I want to replay my take on Thanksgiving I did with Cafe Mom from when I still had a green front door ( it’s now red).
I do love this video. It’s full of real good advice. Some of which I have not followed this year. I haven’t made ONE thing yet. My table was not set days ahead.
I’m not going to go into it.. just can’t yet, but I’ve had a big loss and I’m still sorting it out. I can’t comment till it’s been more digested. Mark and my kids and fine and I wish you a happy holiday with your family and friends.
Once again I’m hosting Thanksgiving. Family from halfway across the globe will be in my house. I’m starting to get a tad nervous.
Extra wine glasses- needed
Have enough chairs? – too nervous to count
Plates?–maybe I should bite the bullet and rent this year. Last year I did a nice series of vids with cafe mom. One was about this very issue. It’s time to rerun it. As they say in hack branded videos, “What are you doing to get ready?”
I’ve been quiet the last few days since 1) did stand up for the first time in a while– really fun. Met some HILARIOUS women. 2) the stress of the restaurant closing and dealing with an addiction issue in my families has caused me to have the MOST debilitating back problems I’ve ever had AND I got shingles. I’m about to dash to the 2nd doctors appointment of the day, but I know I needed a chuckle, maybe you do to. Here is the lates episode that I did with cafe mom studios. Please share! I have two words for it: Fun- ny.
IT’S FINALLY HERE! I’ve gestated and now I’ve given birth to the funniest webisode I’ve ever done and the funniest video I’ve done since “Moms with Scarves.” This is the first of 8 episodes with Cafe Mom Studios for the NEW series “How To Be a Mom”. I’m really proud of it and it was so great to work with a creative team after shooting, editing, feeding all by myself all year.
PLEASE watch, Please SUBSCRIBE to cafemomstudios on youtube to see them all ( and so I can do more).
My friend Sarah Maizes ( “professional writer, amateur mom” lol) guest stars as all the annoying parents that cross my path. Per usual, I couldn’t have done this without my kids, Vivien and Rex!
A continuing theme in Mom Lit is the search for self. Or the maintenance of it. Now doubt marriage and motherhood change you, as it should, but frankly, I don’t want it to change me THAT much.
The last couple of weeks I have a had more work, fun and hi jinx then the last couple of months. All good. All leading me back to smidge of the me I discovered back in The Greatest Decade, the ’90’s.” That I was the DaphMasterFlash. What does that mean? It means when I’m firing on all cylinders and things are coming together. My creativity is on and I was improvising, hosting, producing ( whatever my job at that moment) really well. It meant I when I use to set my cap for a guy and say, “you” and check please! It meant travelling to other countries and having the best adventures.
My producer Brian on my Discovery Show “Perfect Partner” knew of my alter ego, greater self and use to exhort me to exhibit it when we were in the midst of shooting one of our 81 shows in the field for that series.
“DMF it, DMF it” he would say so I could bring our dog and pony show to an end and we could move on to the next set up. Sometimes I would say, “I don’t have the DMF today.” I think I haven’t had much of the DMF for a couple of years. Or maybe it was put into a subtle survival mode. Surviving selling my home while pregnant and losing most of our net worth. Stuff like that.