OH, wait, not grandma’s, mom’s of bloggers. My grandmas long before the internet was ready for prime time. As I was poking around you tube for a video I was hunting I came across this archival gem. It features my mom! As well as the moms of my favorite blogger friends, Jessica Gottlieb, Heather Armstrong, and Rebecca Woolf. I’ve met Rebecca’s mom and she is just as darling in person. It doesn’t look like it has had many views so I thought I would give it another showing.
Best of all my mom is holding Rex when he was a baby.
Blah,blah, me, me. Even a blogger gets tired of writing about themselves. So, let me put the light on a fellow blogger.
Mindy Roberts and I became friends when we were Momversating a few years back. (The picture above is when we conversed in person on BYU TV.) Video chatting and emails can make you as close as 20 minutes into happy hour . Except they cut out the sex talk in the final edit. I would have liked Mindy anyway, but then she said she named her daughter (sort of) after me we were bonded for life. She use to listen to The Dr. Dean Edell Show in the Bay Area where I was known as “That Daphne”, his producer and side kick. So, there is a cute little Daphne in her home.
Mindy divorced her husband. They had 3 kids. They get along and successfully co parent. As we know, this is not that common. So, she wrote a book. If you or someone you know is thinking about pulling the plug on the marriage this is the book for you. Our other Momversating pal, Heather Armstrong ( that little blog called Dooce) wrote the intro. (Hereis one we all did together, oh, so long ago… like 3 years.. it’s like dog years) Here is Mindy’s book to help navigate a really difficult situation.
I hope you don’t need this book, but just in case… maybe you should buy one for your spouse as well. One less thing to divide.
A continuing theme in Mom Lit is the search for self. Or the maintenance of it. Now doubt marriage and motherhood change you, as it should, but frankly, I don’t want it to change me THAT much.
The last couple of weeks I have a had more work, fun and hi jinx then the last couple of months. All good. All leading me back to smidge of the me I discovered back in The Greatest Decade, the ’90’s.” That I was the DaphMasterFlash. What does that mean? It means when I’m firing on all cylinders and things are coming together. My creativity is on and I was improvising, hosting, producing ( whatever my job at that moment) really well. It meant I when I use to set my cap for a guy and say, “you” and check please! It meant travelling to other countries and having the best adventures.
My producer Brian on my Discovery Show “Perfect Partner” knew of my alter ego, greater self and use to exhort me to exhibit it when we were in the midst of shooting one of our 81 shows in the field for that series.
“DMF it, DMF it” he would say so I could bring our dog and pony show to an end and we could move on to the next set up. Sometimes I would say, “I don’t have the DMF today.” I think I haven’t had much of the DMF for a couple of years. Or maybe it was put into a subtle survival mode. Surviving selling my home while pregnant and losing most of our net worth. Stuff like that.
Misty water color memories… Momversation is one year old. So they asked the moms to talk about their favorite Momversation moments. Here is what made the cut.
I have to be honest, I don’t remember much of what I have recorded on Momversation. But like a lot of the veteran broadcasters and comics I have worked with over the years and respect, I have performance amnesia. I put it all out there, and then when it’s done, it’s done. It’s like I tell the performance to get its crap and get out of here.
I think my new Momversation moment is the one Rebecca shows. It is a riot. Could not have scripted it better.