Imagine saying this… “Please don’t load the dishwasher; I’ll do it.”
At 5 a.m.: “No, don’t get up; I’ve got the baby, you sleep.”
These are the kind of things coming through my abnormally kind mouth the last 24 hours as Mark recuperates from his eye surgery. We went back to UCLA this morning at the doctor told him had he not had the surgery it would have been “catastrophic.” Yikes.
Happily Mark is not in any pain. It itches but not super bad. When the nurse took off the patch at the examination he said, “How does it look, honey?”
“You know that last scene in the original Rocky where he is screaming for Adrian? Like that.”
So he can’t leave the house for a week. He can move around, but no lifting, straining, bending over, gardening (there goes that herb garden I was looking forward to).
I was pretty freaked looking at his eye. Our vulnerability can hit us at times and make me shaky. Then you get over your fear and the other self takes over.
We had some nice, mellow moments at home today. Since he has to slow the pace down I said he better be careful ’cause without activity he could blimp up, and I’m not into being married to a big fattie.
He has been watching a lot of TV, and he did make some applesauce for Rex, which he loved. Ahhh.
A FEW HOURS LATER…
Okay, is he better yet?
Yes, he did coach me on how to make a sauce for the petrale sole I was making, but I am so used to him not being here. We just had a fight about the appropriate way to reprimand Vivien, or not at all… which was my vote. And Nosy Nellie decided to update my software thus causing me to lose things I had open on my computer.
I felt like a teenager in a sense saying, “Leave my stuff alone!!” He thinks if the software update thing is bouncing it means immediate action.
Okay, watching “Top Chef: Masters” finale with him was fun. He was really intense. We were both glad that Rick Bayless won. His food is incredible, and we personally really like him.
“I wish I could email him and congratulate him” Mark said.
“You can.” I said without thinking
“But I can’t read.” Oh, right.
I can do it for you. Group hug.