Best of Cool Mom: Sandwich Generation

In my tribute to Dad’s Week I revist one that is mixed with pain for me. It’s about being the sandwich generation.  Never made more clear to me than when I took my Dad and my stepson to a movie.  I picked Iron Man for Oliver, but had to follow my Dad out of the theater when he went to the bathroom, lest he get lost.  He did.  Or when I had to skip a visit to my Dad, which made me feel so guilty, because Rex had a fever.

Problems I still wish I had.  I don’t know if any adult child feels like they do enough for an ailing parent. Except for the ones that become full time caregivers, which I know was not in my wheelhouse. Feeling less sandwiched now, but a pat on the back to those who feeling like a meat filling.

Going to the Movies

Remember when going to the movies was fun? Yeah, I barely do as well. When Vivien was a newborn I could take her, but now it’s totally not possible. And then there are the competing interests, what a 14 year old wants to see is different than what I or my elderly dad might want to see. But, one day I decided to try and please everyone and we all headed to the movies. Since my dad has difficulty walking and is eating himself toward a stroke, going to a movie is one of the few activities that make sense for him. I may never be the same.